but i think it may be too much of a sore spot to bring up right now. i really did my best to set up the perfect date, but Gerard ended up thinking it was a joke. maybe i'm just bad at this?
no its not your fault you were just trying to do a nice thing gerard is sensitive because he has been hurt before......... but thats not your fault!! ill just tell him it wasnt a joke and wolfwood 100% meant it but he is shy
maybe it isn't the best time to tell him that. i think Wolfwood is really bristly after the date and he's the type to lash out if he's caught off-guard, so if he catches a whiff that more's happening then he might run away forever. time might help in this case. PATIENCE!!!
time might help Gerard heal, too! i hope he enjoyed the spider-infested food i prepared for him.
i won't talk about it or mention it to Wolfwood, either. no awkwardness! no guilt!
thanks! it took me two nights to catch enough spiders. keeping them contained and alive without the rest of my team knowing was the harder part.
i do have a question though... the reapers told me Gerard was divorced, which was why i went ahead and planned the date, but he said he was still married?
i dont know how much i should say about it. please dont tell anyone, im only telling you because it might be helpful for wolfwood to know.
theyre still married but she left and i dont know if theyre going to get back together. at least, when we met her, she said some things that were a little too cold, in my opinion! maybe it would be for the best...but i dont know exactly how he feels.
yeah! goes to show i should doublecheck with others.
oh, man. Gerard, BUDDY. i won't ask for the details since it's very personal, but i hope it works out... this makes the date all very awkward, doesn't it. 😔
yeah...and he probably wouldn't be turning back into a frog if they were still completely in true love so it's sort of tricky.
but its ok even if hes not ready to move on im sure it would boost his self confidence to know he has other options! like wolfwood! wolfwood will kiss him and he'll become a handsome prince again and he'll be less sad
i don't think you're a monster, but! sometimes friendship isn't always about what you two first have in common. you guys already have a history, right? those are memories that you have in common!
well i mean monster in a non-derogatory way it just is what it is and im trying to own it. but he doesn't like being called that so i wouldn't call him that.
but maybe. i met all of these friends after this happened to me and most of them had weird things happen to them too and maybe if they weren't also weird it would have gone a little differently you know?
oh, i see. that's a different way of looking at it.
but that's back then and this is now. it would be different because he had the experience of being weird first! he doesn't seem like the type of guy to leave that all behind just because he became human and handsome.
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but i think it may be too much of a sore spot to bring up right now. i really did my best to set up the perfect date, but Gerard ended up thinking it was a joke. maybe i'm just bad at this?
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gerard is sensitive because he has been hurt before......... but thats not your fault!!
ill just tell him it wasnt a joke and wolfwood 100% meant it but he is shy
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time might help Gerard heal, too! i hope he enjoyed the spider-infested food i prepared for him.
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that was a really thoughtful thing to do!
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thanks! it took me two nights to catch enough spiders. keeping them contained and alive without the rest of my team knowing was the harder part.
i do have a question though... the reapers told me Gerard was divorced, which was why i went ahead and planned the date, but he said he was still married?
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i dont know how much i should say about it. please dont tell anyone, im only telling you because it might be helpful for wolfwood to know.
theyre still married but she left and i dont know if theyre going to get back together. at least, when we met her, she said some things that were a little too cold, in my opinion! maybe it would be for the best...but i dont know exactly how he feels.
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oh, man. Gerard, BUDDY. i won't ask for the details since it's very personal, but i hope it works out... this makes the date all very awkward, doesn't it. 😔
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but its ok even if hes not ready to move on im sure it would boost his self confidence to know he has other options! like wolfwood! wolfwood will kiss him and he'll become a handsome prince again and he'll be less sad
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like you less? how come?
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but maybe. i met all of these friends after this happened to me and most of them had weird things happen to them too and maybe if they weren't also weird it would have gone a little differently you know?
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but that's back then and this is now. it would be different because he had the experience of being weird first! he doesn't seem like the type of guy to leave that all behind just because he became human and handsome.
right?
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maybe
he was a frog before and then turned back into a prince so i dont know
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